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#holistic #getfit #nutrition How to Get Rid of Man Boobs: Step-By-Step Plan for Reducing Moobs Quickly

These two LEGOs are discussing how they feel about fat on their chest: man boobs.

Can I get rid of my man boobs quickly and naturally?

Awkward phrase? Sure.

But that’s not gonna get us to shy away from the topic here on Nerd Fitness.

We work on solutions to questions just like this with our Online Coaching Clients: awkward questions and challenging situations that are tough to talk about, but can be helped!

This is what we do, and we’re really good at it.

Today, let’s tackle the “moobs” situation head-on by covering all of the following in this MASSIVE guide:

Okie dokie, let’s jump in!

What are “Man Boobs”?

These two LEGOs are fighting over how to reduce man boobs.

Let’s chat about some medical definitions, because it’ll help us put “man boobs” in some proper context.

  • Gynecomastia is defined as the benign growth of the male breast glandular tissue. The National Institute of Health states it’s usually caused by “increased estrogen activity, decreased testosterone activity, or the use of numerous medications.”[1]
  • Pseudogynecomastia is when male breasts are enlarged by fat deposits, due to an increase in body fat which distributes itself on one’s body according to genetics.

Most men who struggle with “man boobs” or “moobs” are in this second category, and the “pseudo” means they don’t really have the condition “gynecomastia.”

There is no hormonal imbalance.

Instead, the body is just storing extra fat in the chest area.

I’ll mostly be talking about shedding body fat and building muscle to lose “moobs,” but I will also talk about gynecomastia and medical conditions later.

Next up!

Can You Get Rid of Man Boobs?

Why do some men store fat in their chest?

We all process and store calories differently in our bodies.

And how our body stores excess calories is a critical concept for our discussion on “man boobs.”  

If you eat more calories than you burn, day after day, month after month, year after year, your body has to do something with all that extra energy.

If we’re sedentary, more often than not, the body will choose to store that energy as fat to be used for later.

Depending on our genetics, our body might choose to store that fat in our butt, gut, thighs, or chest.

Probably a combination of all those things.

And for some of us, a large portion of that body fat deposits itself in our chest area.

And thus, man boobs.

So, in order to start reversing the process, we need to have a two-pronged approach to tackling the “moobs” problem naturally and safely:

Exercise and nutrition.

Specifically, strength training and calorie restriction.

If you are somebody that wants EXACT instruction and a nutritional plan that is designed to help you reduce your man boobs, check out Nerd Fitness Coaching. We’ve helped people just like you do this the right way.

Can Exercises Target Chest Fat?

This LEGO is ready to work off his man boobs.

Fat and muscle are two different ‘systems’ in our body.

Fat sits on top of the muscle, like oil on water.

When we target a specific area for weight loss, like with a Thighmaster, all we’re really doing is exercising the muscle underneath the fat on our thighs.

And don’t get me wrong – this is GREAT (the muscle, not the Thighmaster).

More muscle is a good thing.

And yup, any exercise will result in calories burned – which is crucial when it comes to fat loss.

However, we need to think of the other systems as well:

The fat resting on top.

So, the path to get rid of “man boobs” centers on three points:

  1. Eating a caloric deficit (consuming fewer calories than you burn) so that our body has to break down our fat stores (including the fat stored in our chest) for energy. You can calculate how many calories you should eat to start.
  2. Strength train so more calories are diverted to rebuilding our muscle mass rather than getting stored as fat.
  3. Strength train (again) to build up the muscle under the fat. Muscular pecs with a low body fat percentage look dramatically different than man boobs.

Here’s why: strength training preserves the muscles we have (and can help build pectoral muscles).

Our body also has to rebuild the muscle that breaks down while we exercise, so it uses any extra calories we have to do that rather than storing it as fat!

Think of it kind of like the Sorting Hat from Harry Potter (come on, this is Nerd Fitness after all).

Your body is a lot like the Sorting Hat.

When we strength train, our body will act like The Sorting Hat and divert calories coming into House “Rebuild Muscle” and away from House “Store As Fat.” 

It’s a message we really strike home in our video for Body Recomposition:

For more, check out our guide on “Losing Fat and Gaining Muscle At the Same Time.”

With a strategy of slight caloric restriction combined with enough protein and heavy strength training, we’re decreasing the body fat on top of our muscle, while also building up that same muscle underneath.

This results in tighter skin, with less padding (fat), stretched over firmer muscles.

And boom – confidence-boosting pecs that would make King Leonidas proud!

Said another way, we’ll be coming at “man boobs” from the outside and inside.

The Best Workouts for Reducing “Man Boobs”: strength Training

These LEGOs are working the bench and doing some deadlifts. Nerd Fitness approves.

If we’re currently sedentary, the best form of exercise to help build a confidence-boosting physique would be strength training.

In our opinion, strength is a foundational component of overall health.

We’ll get started in three areas:

  1. Build up oour pectoral muscles (chest muscles under your “man boobs.”)
  2. Same with broadening our shoulders.
  3. We can also improve our posture to make sure we stand tall and proud, puffing our chest out and pulling our shoulder blades back.

In order to accomplish each of these goals, we’re gonna focus on building up strength in our PUSH muscles and our PULL muscles. 

Our first stop will be push-ups, a foundational exercise for developing upper body strength.

We show the correct way to do one right here:

I don’t care if you need to do them from your knees or doing an elevated push-up:

KNEE PUSH-UP

Knee push-ups like this are a great way to progress to a regular push-up!

ELEVATED PUSH-UP

Do elevated push-ups to work up to regular push-ups

We all start somewhere, and the name of the game is progressive overload – getting stronger with each workout!

In addition to the push-up, let’s consider the following as the best 5 Advanced Chest Exercises.

These are the types of exercises we build into the workout programs for our Coaching Clients looking to reduce chest fat and build up muscle in that area:

#1) Bench press (barbell or dumbbell).

One of the staple exercises to develop a chest area.

If one piece of equipment is visually associated with a fitness gym, it would be a bench press. If you’ve never used one before, check out our guide on using a bench press safely right here.

#2) Incline bench press.

A variation of the press that will help develop your chest area.

We can also work on an incline bench press to develop a more rounded-pectoral muscle that targets your upper chest.

#3) Overhead presses.

The overhead press is a great way to strengthen your chest muscles.

Not only can our pectoral muscles help push forward, they also get worked out when we do an overhead press (though much less so than the bench press variations.)

Varying chest exercises is a good way to help attack all different sides and parts of our chest and build well-rounded pectorals.

Here’s a dumbbell variation if you can’t train with a barbell yet:

In the neutral grip press, shown here, you have your hands together during the movement.

#4) Bodyweight Dips (ADVANCED)

Bodyweight dips are a great exercise to include in an strength training practice.

Once we start to develop some serious strength, we can start to level up your advanced bodyweight training with bodyweight dips

#5) Dumbbell Chest Fly (ADVANCED)

The dumbbell fly is another great exercise that targets the chest.  This is one you want to make sure you do with good form. Lie on a bench like you are about to do a dumbbell bench press (but you’ll want to use MUCH lighter weights to start.) Keep your elbows slightly bent and your chest puffed up. Reach to the sides until you feel a great stretch RIGHT in the chest muscle, and then come back to the starting position.

As we cover in our “how to build your own workout” guide, make sure to do a push exercise in every workout to start building up pectoral muscles. 

Again, start with push-ups.

Start doing them today.

This gif shows Staci doing a push-up in perfect form.

Again, if you can’t do a regular push-up, a knee push-up is totally fine.

Just do them.

After you get cozy with push-ups, move onto the above advanced moves or follow some of the following workouts:

I asked the male members of the Nerd Fitness Rebellion about man boobs, and many have reported improving their appearance with these pectoral exercises.

Outside of improving man boobs, strength training will make every other aspect of your life better.

Bringing groceries in from the car, doing that thing that consenting adults do, and defending yourself against ninjas will all be much easier after strength training.

Now, I’d be remiss if I didn’t include two other exercises that can change your life:

#1) Barbell Squats 

A squat is a life changing exercise

#2) Barbell Deadlifts

Rebel Leader Steve showing how to do a 420 lb deadlift at the gym.

These two basic barbell movements are the most ‘efficient’ exercises at building strength and burning fat.

They recruit your central nervous system and every muscle, joint, tendon, and bone in our body to get stronger.

In fact, if you could only do 4 exercises for the rest of your life, I would say:

  1. Squats
  2. Deadlifts
  3. Push-ups
  4. Pull-ups

Show me somebody who is super strong at those four movements, and I’ll show you somebody who has a great physique.

Seriously, don’t neglect those PULL muscles!

Here's a gif of a pull-up in perfect form.

This exercise might seem counterintuitive: why work on your back muscles if we’re trying to build up the muscle in our pecs?

Balance and posture.

By building strength in our PULL muscles, we strengthen and tighten our back muscles. This will naturally cause us to pull our shoulder blades back and down into proper position, and give us a better posture. 

If we ONLY do chest exercises, we’re more likely to get out of balance, which leads to contracted chest muscles, hunched shoulders, and poor posture. 

Here are some options for building up our back muscles and improving our posture:

#1) Dumbbell Rows 

Do a dumbbell row as a great beginner exercise to get strong enough for a pull-up!

#2) Bodyweight Rows

The inverted row is a great way to develop your "pull" and back muscles.

#3) Pull-ups (here’s how to do proper pull-ups)

The classic pull-up

And if you can’t do a pull-up yet, here’s a great pull-up progression that will show you how to do assisted pull-ups to build up strength, like so:

Staci using a band for an assisted pull-up, a great exercise for a bodyweight circuit.

Too long didn’t read: get strong, and your life will get better.

Build muscle in the right places, and it can help you reduce “man boob” problems.

Now, if you’re all:

Steve this sounds awesome. I want to strength train, but damn man. I’m already self-conscious enough about my man boobs.

How the hell do I get enough confidence to go into a gym when I don’t know what I’m doing!

Great question.

If you want expert guidance, form checks, and a custom build workout (and nutritional guidance) to help you transform your physique, we have a private, 1-on-1 coaching program that spurs nerds into action.

Also, you don’t even NEED a gym to train (it might sketchy thanks to the pandemic). Here’s exactly how to start working out from home

Okay, we talked about exercise.

And I mentioned “nutrition” as a MAJOR component when it comes to weight and fat loss.

80-90% of “how to get rid of man boobs” will rest on how we answer the question: “What do I normally eat?

The science of fat loss (Proper nutrition and “moobs”)

We'll show you how to use science to experiment with reducing your man boobs.

TOUGH LOVE ALERT:

I can almost guarantee that your man boobs are NOT a result of a slow metabolism or genetics (outside of how your body stores excess body fat).

It’s due to the fact that you have been consistently overeating, day in, and day out, for years. 

Once you’re done being mad at me and defensive about this, you’ll realize this is great news!

Why? Because it’s fixable.

You are not broken.

You simply need to change how you deal with food.

To do that, we’re going to focus on sustainable changes.

After all, temporary changes create temporary results.

And we want to get rid of man boobs permanently.

So, in order for us to lose body fat, we need to expend more calories than our body consumes, consistently.

Let’s put some numbers to this: 3,500 calories equals roughly one pound of fat.

So if we do the math here:

  • There are seven days in a week.
  • If we want to lose one pound of body fat in a week (a worthy, sustainable goal for some), we need to create a caloric deficit of 500 calories a day.
  • We can do this by consuming 500 fewer calories, burning 500 more calories, or a combination of the two.

Remember this: a daily 500-calorie deficit compared to how we normally eat to lose a pound a week.

(Note: in our coaching program, we’ve found clients have the most success targeting 0.5%-0.75% of their body weight per week as a fat loss goal. This is fast enough to see consistent results and stay motivated, while not SO restrictive that it’s completely unsustainable.)

What does 500 calories look like?

Here are two examples:

  • The number of calories found in a Big Gulp of Mountain Dew.
  • An estimate of the calories required to run five miles.

Hopefully, those two dots above made your head explode.

Steve, you’re saying that in order for me to counteract just sipping on a Mountain Dew while owning noobs in Fortnite, I’d need to run 5 miles?

I haven’t run a mile since gym class. And that was 15 years ago.

Yup.

Nutrition is 90% of the equation when it comes to weight loss.

NINETY. PERCENT.

Luke saying "that's not true"

Okay, I don’t actually know the exact percentage, but 90% is dramatic enough.

I hope to get you to realize that changing your nutrition is the most important thing you can do to reduce “man boobs.”

Sure, exercise is important.

However, when it comes to creating a caloric deficit, it’s much easier to decrease calories consumed vs. increase “calories burned.”

Put a different way: would you rather pour out that Mountain Dew, or run five miles?

Let’s tie together our discussion on “man boobs” with our philosophy on fitness: we’re eating too much, and our body is choosing to store these calories wherever it sees fit.

Unfortunately in this situation, it’s choosing to store them in our chest area.

We can’t change the past.

But we can change your future…and you won’t even need a wacky scientist.

Or can you change the past? No, you probably can't.

This is why we’re gonna reverse the trend: eat a caloric deficit, consistently, until we reach our goal. Then learn how to eat AT our caloric needs to sustain it for the long run.

Over time, our body will respond by burning fat from certain areas, in a certain order (again, this is out of our control).

As our body fat percentage drops far enough, it should start to remove the body fat from your pectoral area.

We have two paths forward.

PATH ONE: Count calories. If you’ve never done this before and are interested in trying, we recommend recording every meal and morsel for 3-5 days to start. (We can use a food journal, a calorie-counting app like MyFitnessPal, etc.

It’ll teach you a lot about the food you eat, and yourself. From there, calorie counting can be a viable strategy for SOME to continue to monitor and dial in their caloric intake. For about 25% of our coaching clients, this is the process that works for them.

As for how many calories we SHOULD eat, see our Total Daily Energy Expenditure (TDEE) Calculator.

It works, but boy is it challenging.

PATH TWO: follow our “simple plate” approach from our Healthy Eating Guide. Learn portions sizes, and start making slightly better choices. Focus on getting enough protein and veggies and cut back on liquid calories. Over 60% of our coaching clients find this method to be more sustainable and successful for them in the long-run.

A plate that that contains a portion of protein, healthy carb, veggies/fruit, and unsweetened drink.

I know that overhauling one’s diet is easier said than done.

But it’s time to take a proactive approach to nutrition.

You’re reading this article because man boobs are a real problem for you – educate yourself on what you’re eating and work on cutting back on the calories!

And that’s what we’ll cover in the next section: what foods to eat that will help you reduce your calories without you being miserable.

What should I be eating to lose “moobs”?

The Nerd Fitness philosophy on what constitutes a ‘healthy food’ can be written like this:

“Foods I can eat frequently that give me enough fuel to get through the day AND don’t make me miserable.”.

I lay it all out in our Beginner’s Guide to Healthy Eating, but this generally equates to foods like:

  • Protein like poultry, meat, low-fat dairy, and legumes.
  • Fruits and vegetables.
  • Healthy carbohydrates like rice and quinoa.
  • Healthy fats like almonds and olive oil.
  • Occasional full-fat cheese and dairy.

These are the types of foods that form the foundation of a well-balanced diet.

Do you know WHY these types of foods help with weight loss?

Because if we stick mostly to this list, we’ll likely create a caloric deficit naturally.

But why tho?

The fine folks at WiseGEEK did an awesome post where they took pictures of what 200 calories of a certain food look like.

200 calories of broccoli gets you enough broccoli to fill up an entire plate:

Or half a Snickers bar:

Yeah. And who eats half a Snickers and says “I’ll save the other half for later?” 

Literally nobody.

If we want to create a caloric deficit consistently, focusing on foods that give you a ton of bang-for-your-buck from a nutrients vs calories standpoint is the answer.

Of course, I know a Snickers bar is way more delicious than broccoli – it was designed in a lab by scientists to be AMAZING!

And I’m not gonna tell you to never eat a Snickers ever again either.

Instead, we need to start being proactive about our food choices. If we’re gonna eat a Snickers, we better damn well be planning for that by reducing our calorie intake elsewhere.

And if the scale isn’t budging, and our man boobs aren’t getting smaller – we’re still eating too much!

Should we do the Mediterranean diet? Keto? Vegan?

Paleo?

Maybe!

They all follow the same premise: by changing the foods we eat, we’re more likely than not to eat a caloric deficit. Certain people respond better to certain diets than others.

I personally follow a mental model diet, summarized here:

  1. Minimize and plan for processed food – they’re designed for us to overeat them. Take a look again at that Snickers bar. Do you really think you’d only eat half of one to stick to 200 calories? Of course not.
  2. Eat veggies. Vegetables are nutrient-dense and light on calories. Because of all the fiber, they are also tough to overeat. Imagine eating all that broccoli. Are you going for seconds? Probably not. So eat your veggies to help keep you full. Here’s how to make vegetables taste good.
  3. Avoid liquid calories. Cut back dramatically on soda, juices, smoothies, and any beverage with calories. Even most coffee orders (with sugar, cream, etc.) have a ton of hidden calories. Stick to water, and unsweetened tea or black coffee. Here are our thoughts on diet soda.
  4. Prioritize protein. Our body uses protein as the building block of muscle rebuilding. Outside of repairing our body, protein will also work to keep us full and satiated: 400 calories of chicken will leave us wayyy more full than 400 calories worth of Gatorade.[3] If you prioritize protein on your plate, you’ll be doing a lot of the heavy lifting on proper nutrition. Some great sources of protein include chicken, eggs, beef, pork, fish, nuts, legumes, quinoa, and most dairy products. Check out our Guide to Protein to measure how much protein you need every day.

These four points will help you on your journey to create a caloric deficit.

I know this is much easier said than done. After all, everybody knows they should eat more vegetables, and yet 70% of the country is overweight.

Clearly, there’s more happening here than just “I need willpower and I need to try harder!”

If you’re struggling with portion control and challenges, jump fully into the NF community.

We cover human behavior and psychology to help you:

We’ve helped thousands of people like you here at NF, and we really focus on nutrition.

As we said, it’s 90% of the battle!

It’s why we created our 10-level nutritional system. Each level gets a bit more challenging and healthier, but you can progress at your own speed to make your changes stick!

I’ll send you the 10-Level Guide when you sign up for our newsletter here.

Does Soy Cause Man Boobs?

This LEGO is researching whether soy causes man boobs!

You don’t have to search far on the internet for the advice “avoid soy because it causes man boobs.”

It’s repeated so much, it’s assumed to be fact.

Is it?

The definition of gynecomastia (medical condition of man boobs) mentions “increased estrogen activity” as a major cause.

So when people say stay clear of soy, they’re worried about its impact on hormones like testosterone and estrogen.

Why the concern?

It comes down to a compound found in soy called “isoflavones.” Isoflavones are a type of phytoestrogen, which acts a little like estrogen, the central female hormone.

“Phyto” is derived from Greek and means “plant.” “Estrogen” is estrogen. So phytoestrogen more or less means plant-derived estrogen.

The fear of isoflavone rests with our bodies using this plant-like estrogen as actual estrogen. A report from Frontiers in Neuroendocrinology found that this is potentially possible.[4]

I should now note, we are about to wade into a controversial subject.

We’ll be careful and rely on good old-fashioned science and studies for guidance.

However, sometimes science can point us in a couple of different and contradictory directions. When this happens, it’s important to acknowledge the uncertainty.

Compounds in soy may act like estrogen in the body. Does this apply to men though? And do they cause “man boobs?”

A 2005 study out of The Journal of Nutrition did find a relationship between soy intake and hormone levels in men.[5] However, they concluded these to be “minor.”

In 2010, Fertility and Sterility tackled the question on whether soy had “feminizing effects on men.”

They found it didn’t.[6]

Their report stated:

Neither isoflavone supplements nor isoflavone-rich soy affect total or free testosterone levels.

The journal concluded:

There is essentially no evidence from the nine identified clinical studies that isoflavone exposure affects circulating estrogen levels in men.

Case closed?

Is the case closed on soy and man boobs?

Probably, but I’d be remiss not to mention the following:

There is one documented case published in Endocrine Practice, where a man may have given himself gynecomastia by drinking three quarts of soy milk a day.[7]

His gynecomastia went away when he stopped. Granted, this is anecdotal evidence, which is far from proof.

However, it is interesting and worth noting to round out this discussion. And as mentioned earlier, the ability for phytoestrogen to act as actual estrogen does seem possible…

Steve, Just tell me: Should I ditch soy to ditch my man boobs?

Well, as with anything, quantity and context matters. Virginia Miller, an estrogen researcher at the Mayo Clinic, told a Vice journalist:[8]

The amount of phytoestrogens in various soy products varies by process method.

Dr. Miller didn’t think it was too problematic to eat soy, specifically mentioning that:

Eating tofu is probably OK.

Interestingly, Miller suggested that BPA found in plastic is more harmful to our endocrine (hormone) system than eating or drinking soy.[9]

Confusing stuff.

In general, the consensus seems to be that as long as you don’t binge soy products, the amount of phytoestrogens found in a normal diet is fine.

If you have the actual condition of gynecomastia, soy is unlikely to be the root cause.

As more and more research is being done on this subject, this answer could change.

My opinion: this is a tiny piece of the puzzle…

…not the whole picture.

If we’re overeating food every day, worrying about the soy we consume is missing the forest for the trees.

That’d be like…putting on a long sleeve shirt instead of a t-shirt for added protection, before driving 50 miles an hour into a brick wall.

Instead, maybe focus on wearing a seat belt, or better yet – not driving into the wall in the first place!

I swear that analogy made sense in my head before I typed it out.

Anyways – back to real specifics.

Here is the Nerd Fitness philosophy on soy: focus on total calories consumed and get that dialed in for consistent caloric deficit.

Only THEN, as our body fat starts to decrease, and we’re analyzing how our body responds to any and ALL types of food, see how our body responds to removing soy from our diet.

Want to have an expert guide you on this process? A fitness partner to help guide you on nutrition, including eliminating and then re-introducing certain foods? You can by checking out Nerd Fitness Coaching.

Do I actually have gynecomastia?

The only way to really know if you have gynecomastia is to go to a doctor.

They’ll be able to tell you (often with an ultrasound) if it’s a glandular breast enlargement or just fatty tissue.

They might also do some blood tests to check testosterone levels and female sex hormones like estrogen.

If you have an imbalance, gynecomastia could be a side effect. They’ll know for sure and can prescribe a treatment.

Also, they can verify that something very serious isn’t going on. In very rare cases, male breast enlargement can be a sign of cancer. Yes, men can get breast cancer.[10]

It should be noted: obesity itself is tied to increasing the development of real gynecomastia.

Excessive fat stimulates the body’s production of estrogen, spurring the growth of actual breast tissue.[11]

Said another way:

Pseudogynecomastia can turn into actual gynecomastia.

If you are diagnosed with gynecomastia, it’ll be between you and your doctor as to the next steps. I’ve seen men take one of three paths, as I’ve read anecdotes from our private support community for Nerd Fitness:

  1. Men who had elective surgery (liposuction in some instances and skin tucks) to remove the fat due to gynecomastia. They are thankful for no longer being self-conscious about their chest areas. This is not an option for everybody for various reasons.
  2. Others have worked hard to reduce their man boob size through exercise and nutrition.
  3. Some have elected to not treat gynecomastia, or are working to reduce the fat around their pecs through diet and exercise before deciding what to do next.

If you’re concerned with “man boobs,” weight management is the path of action we’d recommend, whether you’re facing either gynecomastia or pseudogynecomastia. 

Reducing your body fat percentage can help keep your hormones in balance.

One important note here. Your unique situation is just that: unique.

I know many men who have treated pseudogynecomastia with diet and exercise, and I know others who are VERY thankful they had surgery to treat the symptom and are much happier as a result.

No judgment here. You do you, brother.

At this point, I bet you have an additional question: “Can hormone balance be affected in the opposite direction? By increasing testosterone?”

Is there a way to boost my testosterone naturally?

Indiana Jones wants to know if he has gynecomastia or not.

If you do suspect you have a hormonal imbalance, speak with your doctor. They can run tests and tell you exactly what is going on, why, and how to treat it.

I will not be digging into medically supervised testosterone therapy (which is above my pay grade, and between you and your doctor), but here’s our guidance on naturally boosting your testosterone levels:

#1) Strength training. I know. A few sections ago I devoted an entire area to strength training.

However, if you are looking for a natural way to boost testosterone, strength training would be a good way to go about it.

One 2017 study found, that although temporary, testosterone levels were shown to: “acutely rise immediately following an acute resistance exercise bout.”[12]

Because of the short-term increase, consistency is key with resistance training and testosterone levels. That’s likely why “regular exercise” has been linked with increased testosterone overal.l[13]

#2) Stress. Cortisol is a hormone that is promoted by stress and reduces free testosterone levels (in addition to signaling for your body to store fat).[14]

The more stressed out we are, the lower our testosterone will be. What’s a cure? Being mindful.

Meditation practices have been shown to help control cortisol levels.[15] Want to start a mindfulness practice? Scope out our Nerd’s Guide to Mindfulness to get going.

Do you know what else is connected with higher cortisol levels and increased stress? Lack of sleep! If this is you, shut off Netflix and get to bed sooner.

#3) Overtraining. There can be too much of a good thing. Studies have found that both professional basketball and soccer players drop their testosterone levels by the end of a season.[16]

Which makes sense.

Tons of activity in a short amount of time gives no time to repair and heal. The same phenomenon has been found in ultra-marathoners.[17][[17]]That study on ultra-marathoners is right here.[[17]. Make sure you get plenty of sleep and schedule rest days.

#4) Eat red meat. Red meat is a great source of the amino acid carnitine, which has been linked to improved fertility.[18] Plus, it’s a good source of zinc, which has also been shown to help regulate testosterone.[19]

#5) Your results may vary. My friend Brett over at Art of Manliness did a 90-day experiment in which he doubled his testosterone levels through diet and strength training.

To be honest with you, even if you don’t have low testosterone levels, you should strength train, be mindful, and prioritize rest.

And maybe even eat a little red meat.

And yes, I read that study that says red meat will kill you. I don’t agree with the fear-mongering.[20]

If you want help with strength training, nutrition, or even starting a mindfulness practice, check out Nerd Fitness Coaching! We help men (and women) level up their lives by providing actionable goals and accountability.

How to Start Reducing Man Boobs

A LEGO ready to fix this car and get his diet in order to tackle his chest fat.

So you have pseudogynecomastia.

And you’re interested in trying to do this the old-fashioned way before going down the route of surgery.

This would be my recommended path to everybody, though remember I’m not a doctor and I would recommend working with your doctor to put a plan in place together.

OUR NON-DOCTOR ADVICE FOR A DUDE TRYING TO GET RID OF MAN BOOBS NATURALLY:

  1. Take front and side photos without a shirt on today. This will help give you a frame of reference as you move forward with your changes. Pictures will round out your story.
  2. Consider a tape measure and take weekly chest measurements too. Just be consistent with how you take the measurements and look for overall trends! Here’s our Guide on Tracking Fitness Progress.
  3. Follow the above nutritional guidance and workout routine for the next month. Remember, I gave you four tips for healthy eating. If you requested our 10-Level Nutrition Guide, it’ll help make those suggestions permanent. Plus, I want you to start doing push-ups (on your knees is a great start). Do it immediately. It’ll help prep you for those Advanced Chest Exercises I talked to you about.
  4. If the scale is dropping, and your photos are showing “moob” improvement, keep it up! As I said earlier, consistency is the name of the game here at Nerd Fitness. “Slow and steady” beats “fast and quitting” every time.
  5. If you want to talk to a doctor to see if anything can or should be done about it, go for it! Medical advice is generally good advice. Bonus points if you find a doctor who strength-trains and seeks to treat through nutrition and exercise first!

I do want to stress, that many male members of the Nerd Fitness Rebellion have reported improving their “man boobs” through the strategies listed in this article.

We are dealt a certain hand from the genetic lottery: whether we gain muscle quickly or slowly, whether we lose our hair or not, and whether we store fat in our legs or in our chest.

We can get mad about it, or we can play the hand we are dealt.

Until somebody develops robot legs, I’m not growing any taller.

However, let’s not justify our internal excuses, or throw ourselves too big of a pity party.

What we do with our genetic fate, is completely up to us. And we have hundreds of thousands of people in the Nerd Fitness Rebellion who have overcome shitty genetics to transform themselves dramatically.

If you want 1-on-1 help to transform yourself, we got you!

We come in all shapes and sizes: you do you.

It's okay to be who you are now and want to grow into something new too.

The goal of this post is educational. To teach us how our body stores fat, and what can or cannot be done about it.

It’s more than okay to love yourself and also want to improve your physique.

Body positivity and wanting to look better are not mutually exclusive.

We’re all works in progress, and that’s great.

If you want to use this post to spur you to change, like cleaning up your diet or lifting some weights, awesome!

I’m glad Nerd Fitness can help lead you into action:

  • Reduce your body fat percentage through nutritional changes (which includes eating a caloric deficit).
  • Strength train to increase the amount of muscle you have, increase the “calories burned” portion of the weight-loss equation, and increase your testosterone.
  • Work with your doctor if you are reducing your body fat but not seeing any changes in your chest area – you might actually have a medical condition called gynecomastia.

Want help knowing exactly how to progress from here? 

I have MULTIPLE options for you. Pick the path below that best aligns with your goals and timeline:

1) If you want step-by-step guidance on how to lose weight, eat better, and get stronger, check out our killer 1-on-1 coaching program:

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2) Join the Rebellion! We need good people like you in our community, the Nerd Fitness Rebellion. 

Sign in the box below and not only will you receive our free weight loss guide, but our step-by-step plan for starting a Strength Training practice:

I know it’s easier said than done to say “f*** the haters,” but seriously, f*** the haters.

Take your shirt off at the beach: you deserve to enjoy the sun and sea like everybody else.

We’re all a work in progress, and I hope this post helps you continue to work on yours!

-Steve

PS: No seriously, f*** the haters:

It's okay to be who you are. Smile at people who hate on you for being you.

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#healthyliving #holistic #nutrition Overcome Toxic Guilt: Strategies for Letting Go

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While guilt is a normal emotion we all feel—toxic guilt isn’t something you should have to deal with. Guilt is a complex emotion that you feel when you’ve done something wrong. As a child, and even as an adult, this is important. Guilt teaches you the difference between right and wrong, supports the development of morals that will act as a compass throughout your life, and so much more.

Toxic guilt, on the other hand, is what many women feel as adults. Instead of feeling guilty when you truly do something wrong—like hitting a friend on the playground—you feel it when you haven’t done anything “wrong.” 

For example, you might feel guilt when you set a boundary with a loved one. You do something that’s healthy and supportive for you, but feel guilty for disappointing them or making them unhappy in the process. This isn’t helpful guilt—this is toxic guilt.

Over time, this becomes a heavy burden, holding you back from living a truly fulfilling life. In this blog post, I’ll explore the concept of toxic guilt and, of course, share some practical steps to find that liberation you’ve been seeking. 

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Your Daily Dose of Toxic Guilt

Toxic guilt refers to feelings that are disproportionate and irrational, and often disconnected from any real wrongdoing. The sad thing is, as an adult—and especially as a woman—you may feel this toxic guilt on a near-daily basis. Here are some examples of where you might see it show up in your life:

  • Taking time for yourself: You feel selfish or undeserving when prioritizing your own needs.
  • Achieving success or happiness: You may feel toxic guilt if others around you are struggling while you’re succeeding. 
  • Making decisions for loved ones: If you’re a parent or a caretaker, you worry that your choices will negatively impact your children or the people you care for, even if those decisions are reasonable.
  • Expressing personal needs or desires: You may feel this more intensely if those needs or desires inconvenience others. 
  • Not meeting unrealistically high expectations: You see others following the status quo and you feel toxic guilt when you’re not. This goes hand-in-hand with any and all expectations, from unrealistic beauty standards to the standards both parents and women are held to. 

There are many reasons why you might feel that toxic guilt, so I want to talk about how to let it go and find a greater sense of peace in your life. 

5 Steps to Let Go of Guilt (The Toxic Kind!)

Some level of guilt is normal—it’s an emotion just like love, fear, anger, or joy. It’s the toxic kind that we want to let go of. To do so, you have to be willing to self-reflect, tap into your self-compassion, and get intentional about changing those negative thought patterns that are keeping you stuck. Here are five steps that have been helpful for me in making this happen.

Step 1: Become Aware of the Guilt

Step one is being aware of that toxic guilt. This is something you’ve likely been experiencing most of your adult life. Like any habit you’ve been doing for a long time, you might spiral into that negative mindset without even realizing it. 

One way to create this awareness is to make a list of trigger moments, or times when you know it comes up. For me, that unnecessary guilt can creep up when I need to take time off of work because I’m feeling under the weather or when I say no to a social gathering so that I can create more downtime for myself.

Knowing when it’s likely to show up will help you with the next step.

Step 2: Challenge the Toxic Guilt

This guilt is rarely the result of something you’ve done wrong. This is why it’s so important to challenge that emotion when one of those trigger moments happens. Doing this can be as simple as asking yourself, “Is this feeling of guilt real? Did I do something wrong?” This brings you back to reality and facts—rather than getting stuck in that spiral.

Step 3: Give Yourself Some Love

Now it’s time for self-compassion. You didn’t do anything wrong, yet you’ve been conditioned to believe otherwise. In this moment, it’s so important that you shift from critical to compassionate. For me, this often looks like a moment of talking to myself. I might say:

“This is a hard moment, Robin. It’s understandable that you might feel guilty right now because it’s what you’ve been taught. I know it’s hard to feel this and I understand why you’re struggling. I also know that you didn’t do anything wrong.”

The key to this is to talk to yourself like a best friend would talk to you. If you’re a parent, you can also think of how you would soothe your child. You want to be kind, loving and soft with yourself.

Step 4: Correct the Thought Pattern

According to the Principles of Neuroplasticity, you can literally change your brain (so cool!) over time. A therapist once taught me that all automatic thoughts are like train tracks. When you interrupt and correct the thought, you start building a new train track. Over time, the train follows the new train track that you built and thus, your thoughts change as well. The more you practice this, over time, you won’t automatically default to guilt. You’ll default to compassion, happiness or neutrality.

Step 5: Be Consistent

The key with this process is consistency. You have to catch that thought, give yourself some love, and then correct it again and again and again for this to work. The best way to ensure you stick with it is to build your mindfulness muscle. The more mindful you are, the easier it is to catch the guilt, and then follow through with each step.

Mindfulness for Overcoming Guilt That Doesn’t Serve You

Being mindful means that you’re present. Instead of living a busy life on auto-pilot, you’re engaged in each moment and aware of your feelings and emotions. Check out my blog post on mindful versus mindfull to learn more about the difference between these two things.

Living with more mindfulness means you’re not just letting thoughts take over—like toxic guilt. Instead, you’re aware and present, and can then tap into that compassion and challenge the guilt when it does arise.

There are many ways to develop more mindfulness in your everyday life, and here at Lindywell, we particularly love breathwork and Pilates. Both of these can be valuable tools in creating more mindfulness in every area of your life. Let’s look at how and why.

Mindfulness and Breathwork

This is a key mindfulness tool, according to Kiesha Yokers Head of Breathwork and Somatic Programs. As she said: “Breathwork is a perfect tool for building your mindfulness muscle because when you practice conscious, intentional breathing, you create space for rest. You also create space to turn down the volume on the noise that surrounds you and the constant clamor in your head, and you become more available to listen.”

With that greater capacity to listen, you can be more present and mindful—even outside of your breathwork session. Sign up for your free trial of our Pilates and breathwork app and get access to dozens of guided breathwork sessions, which our members love. Catherine said, “The breathwork sessions have also been such a gift.” While Jodene said, “The breathwork has been an eye-opener!”

Mindfulness and Pilates

The intentional and focused style of movement you do in Pilates gives you a chance to practice mindfulness every time you step on the mat. This is especially true at Lindywell, where you start each workout by tuning into the body and checking in with yourself. While studies have found this correlation between Pilates and mindfulness, we can also see just by looking at the 2,000+ reviews from our thousands of members across the globe!

Start your free trial of Lindywell and get instant access to 350+ workouts that range from 10 to 30 minutes. Even better, make one less decision each day and just do the workout of the day!

Let Go of Your Toxic Guilt

Toxic guilt is a bad friend—and it’s time to let go of her. While guilt can and does serve a purpose, this chronic form of guilt that comes up when you’re not doing anything wrong does not. I hope you can use these five steps to let go of toxic guilt that doesn’t serve you so you can make room for more joy and happiness in your life!

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#holistic #getfit #nutrition The 5-Step Guide for Restarting Your Fitness Journey

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Did you know today is National Respawn Day?

This is definitely true and not a holiday that I just made up.

Okay I did make it up, and it doesn’t matter what day it is – you’ve decided you want to try again, and you’re trying to make the changes actually stick this time.

Luckily, whether this is the first time you’ve had to respawn or the 50th, you’re in the right place.

I’m going to share the same step-by-step strategy we’ve used to help 15,000+ nerds restart their routines in our Coaching Program, and we’re gonna have a tiny bit of fun along the way.

Here’s what we’ll cover:

Why It’s Okay to Start Again

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So you already bailed on a goal or habit or routine this year.

Welcome to the club.

It’s called “being human!”

There are 8 billion of us.

Statistically speaking, MOST people have already abandoned the resolutions they’ve set for the year, because that’s just what humans do. [1]

We all start with hopes and dreams for what we hope to accomplish, but then we encounter this ugly thing called “reality.” We find out that maybe we picked the wrong goal, or we tried to do too much, or life managed to get in the way.

This is amazing news!

I like to think of life like a giant video game, which means we’ll need to get comforatble with dying, starting over, and restarting! That’s what makes a game actually fun.

As the saying goes, “Success is moving from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm.” So, congrats for already finding a strategy that doesn’t work for you right now.

Let’s get to work on fixing that!

First, we must…

STEP 1: FORGIVE YOURSELF

A LEGO and her dog

We’re often our own worst critic and our own worst enemy.

When we fail at a task or goal, that voice in our head will very quickly point out all the things we’ve done wrong or how we’ve screwed up.

We might call ourself a nasty name, or berate ourselves for not having enough discipline.

There’s another way to think about this:

  • You discovered a strategy or tactic that doesn’t work for you! For example, if you went Keto and bailed, great! That’s a diet that doesn’t work for you. I personally love carbs, so Keto sounds terrible to me too!
  • Treat the voice in your head like a roommate. You just both happen to occupy the same brain. Just because our brain thought something doesn’t mean it’s true! I like to think of my thoughts as if they came from Chaz, a weird roommate. He means well but he doesn’t always know what he’s talking about. Also, he has a ferret.

You’re reading this, which means you’re trying to improve your life.

You found a few methods that don’t work for you.

And you’re ready to try again.

This is amazing and should be celebrated.

As NF Coach Matt explains in the video below, “self compassion” is really important when attempting to fulfill New Year’s resolutions:

STEP 2: ASK WHAT WENT WRONG?

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So, you conducted an experiment with your goals for this year, and you did not get the results you were expecting.

That’s neither a good nor a bad thing. Like any other experiment, it just… IS. You had a hypothesis (“I am going to stick with THIS diet, and THIS workout plan”), and that turned out to not be true.

Great! That’s information we can use, my scientist friend.

Let’s write down specifically what your experiment entailed. 

What were you trying to do.

  • “I was going to run a mile each morning.”
  • “I was going to eat strictly Paleo every day.”
  • “I was going to transform into a mythical phoenix.”

Look at your list: this is a combination of variables that don’t work for you right now.

IMPORTANT POINT: Learning from the millions of people that have come through Nerd Fitness over the past decade, my guess is that your experiment didn’t work out for one of two reasons:

#1) You built an idealized goal for a romanticized few of life, not reality.

Life is chaos, and we all have a lot going on. When we expect we’re going to have a beautifully organized schedule, and our kids won’t get sick, and work won’t run late…we’re setting ourselves up for failure.

As John Steinbeck said, “Now that you don’t have to be perfect, you can be good.”

We need a plan that fits into the chaos that is life, and is not built for a clear/easy schedule! Those don’t exist.

#2) You tried to change ALL the things:

  • Your goal was 1,800 calories a day instead of your normal 3,000.
  • You tried to run 7 days a week when you don’t exercise at all now.
  • You said you were going to write 5,000 words a day but don’t write normally.

Instead of change all the things completely or don’t change anything, what if we changed a few things, a tiny bit?

We’re never going to get everything done, certainly not all at once. So like a video game, we need to stop trying to fight 10 level-100 dragons at the same time when we’re a wimpy level-1 wizard!

We need to pick ONE target, that’s our level, and then as we level up and get stronger, tackle bigger monsters.

So, let’s try to do less with our next experiment, okay? It’s better to succeed at ONE new habit, than it is to fail at all 10 aspirational habits!

STEP 3: CHANGE A VARIABLE IN YOUR EXPERIMENT

You’re reading this guide, which would lead me to believe you’re interested in trying again to lose weight, build muscle, and/or get in shape.

To avoid getting the same results, we need to change the variables in the experiment to try and get different results.

You know, science!

Remember, any good experiment has accurate measurements for their changing factors! You don’t just put “some uranium” in a nuclear reactor. You know the exact amount.

For your next attempt consider adjusting one of the following variables:

#1) Change the exercise variable: 

Did you actually enjoy the exercise you attempted? If you discovered that you hate running, great! Never do that again. “Exercise sucks,” so I would pick something you actually enjoy.

Did you try to exercise 5 days a week for 60 minutes a day? What if you instead decided to just go for a 5-minute walk every day to build the habit first, and then increased the difficulty?

#2) Try a substitution rather than addition

ADDING a brand new exercise routine into a busy schedule can be really challenging. The same might be true with severely restricting your calories, which can be really uncomfortable and make you hangry and angry.

Let’s try this instead: Substitution! Here are three examples:

  • Making healthy swaps with our diet: How you eat is 80-90% of the weight-loss equation, and you’re already eating every day. So focus on substituting a vegetable for fries once a week, or swapping sparkling water for soda. You can also keep a food journal and change up your breakfast twice a week.
  • Temptation bundling: combine an exercise/activity you want to do with an activity we already love: Listening to a great audiobook, but only when we’re out for a walk or on the treadmill, or joining a friend on a bike ride (to a winery or pub!).
  • Do ONE activity mindfully every day: meditation is amazing for developing the skill of being present and cultivating awareness, but it might be tough for us to set aside 20 minutes to sit alone with our thoughts. So why not practice being mindful during something you’re already doing! Practice mindfulness while brushing your teeth or washing the dishes in the sink. No extra time required, all of the benefits!

#3) Adjust your “win scenario”:

I get it. You were able to train in your home gym for the first few weeks of this year, going for at least an hour.

But THEN…work got busy. And you only had 30 minutes, which wasn’t enough time to get through your workout. So why not set the win scenario at “30 minutes,” or “15 minutes,” or just “1 exercise”? Lower the bar!

This is not an on-off switch. It’s a dial that we can turn UP or turn DOWN based on how busy our life is that day:

Text: "How we think about getting healthy:" next to image of a hand on a light switch with "on" written above and "off" written below. Text: "How we should:" next to image of a hand on a dial numbered from 0 to 11.

Let’s imagine we’re on a 10-year journey, and we’re trying out all sorts of tactics, strategies, and pace of change to see what works best for us.

Doing our workout today is not nearly as important as building a routine of working out that fits into your life for the next decade.

We can stop asking, “Do I have time for my workout” and instead ask “What workout do I have time for?”

Remember that it all counts. There’s nothing that says “a workout must be 60-minutes in a gym.”

Example: if you roll out your yoga mat for 1 set of 1 exercise, it counts as a win. Doesn’t matter if did a full hour workout or just a 5 minute set of push-ups.

It all counts.

We can turn the dial all the way down, we just don’t want to turn it off.

STEP 4: RESPAWN and try again

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When you play a challenging video game, you’re going to die. A lot. (I died literally thousands when playing Hollow Knight, one of my favorite games in recent memory).

What happens after you die in a game?

You respawn, and try again!

You’ve learned a new tactic or pattern. You have a new technique. You’ve uncovered a secret. You also have all the knowledge of every past attempt. You’ve also just gotten better. So you try, again.

And again.

And again.

And then you succeed, and that works for a while. Until it stops working. And then you change your tactics again and keep going.

There’s no shame in failing when it comes to our health. Life is one giant experiment, we’re all disasters, and we’re all trying our best!

Here’s Joe, who made dozens of attempts to get fit until he changed the right variable and got results:

Joe's before and after

We have hundreds of stories of normal people who kept failing, but kept reading and trying, and then finally – something clicked.

And that next attempt is the one that changed their life’s path.

This next attempt might be the one that works for you too!

Keep trying differently, keep failing differently.

You can do this!

STEP 5: SUPERCHARGE YOUR RESULTS

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I know hacking your experiments to get better data isn’t exactly “scientifically smart” or “morally responsible,” but I’m the one writing this guide and we’re all friends here, right?

Once you start your new experiment, here’s how you can stack the deck in your favor:

#1) Write everything down. Write down your workouts. Write down what you eat. Treat it like a science experiment, and you’re collecting data! Plan ahead. Be PRO-active (“I will do Strength Training Workout A at 4pm and tonight I’ll have roasted chicken and bacon-wrapped asparagus) instead of RE-active (“What should I do for exercise right now?” and “Ah, what’s for dinner? Oooh, Burger King!”)

For more strategies here, check out our guide Tracking Your Fitness Progress.

#2) Recruit allies to your team. Don’t go this alone, as you’re more likely to succeed based on the people you spend time with and hang around. So recruit allies. Start spending more time with healthy people that empower you (even virtually), rather than unhealthy people that enable you and drag you down. Join a running group online. Find a lifting “accountabilibuddy,” or someone you can check in with.

We have a free Nerd Fitness Facebook group with thousands of people ready and willing to support you!

#3) Hire a professional. There are two types of coaches worth the investment:

  • An in-person trainer if you are looking to supercharge your form on specific exercises like Olympic lifts, squats, deadlifts, etc. An in-person trainer can be good for people that need the accountability of somebody they’ve paid to meet them in the gym. Here’s how to find a good trainer!
  • An online coach that represents mobile, worldwide accountability. I’ve had a coach for years and it’s changed my life. Knowing that I have a workout and nutrition strategy to follow each day is game-changing.

As Coach Matt explains below, sometimes “outsourcing” help can be a real game-changer when trying to get in shape (or back in shape):

GET BACK IN THE FIGHT

An old mandrill named Rafiki once taught me: “Yes, the past can hurt. But you can either run from it, or learn from it.”

Okay maybe he taught that to Simba in The Lion King, but I too learned the same lesson:

"The Past Hurts" from Lion King

TO RECAP:

#1) Forgive yourself. You wouldn’t talk to somebody else the way you talk to yourself. So have some freaking compassion! You’re trying.

#2) Identify what experiment you JUST tried. Write down what you believe went wrong over the past few weeks. Congrats – you found a strategy that doesn’t work.

#3) Pick a new path, try a different variable. A good scientist meticulously tracks their data and writes down their hypothesis. I would change one of the following:

  • Exercise: do less – focus on building the routine and doing it consistently. Here’s how to exercise in a way that doesn’t feel like exercise.
  • Nutrition: change less. If you couldn’t stick with a diet for 3 weeks, it was too restrictive. Try a different path. For help, check out our Guide to Healthy Eating. It’s designed to build on one small tiny improvement over time.
  • Win scenario: don’t let “perfect” be the enemy of “good.”

#4) Then try again.

You and this sheep both now know how to follow a plant-based diet. But you'll have to eat more than grass.

For #5 (“Supercharge your results”), I have two perfect ways to help you respawn today:

Consider our Online Coaching program, and I also send out a free newsletter twice a week to help you stay motivated and entertained.

It’s the best newsletter in the galaxy, I promise you.

For the Rebellion!

-Steve

PS: If you want more tips and tricks on how to stick to your goals this year, check out 5 Hacks to Effortlessly Build Healthy Habits in 2024.

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#holistic #getfit #nutrition How Temptation Bundling Can Help Build Healthier Habits

Temptation bundling may help these two level up their lives.

“Damn you Netflix, how did I just watch 10 episodes of Stranger Things, I have stuff to do!”

We’ve all been there. There are the things we know we SHOULD do, the things we NEED to do, and the things that we WANT to do.

More often than not, the WANT wins out over the NEED and SHOULD.

It’s like trying to win a tug-of-war against a tractor pulling in the opposite direction. It’s why we struggle to get to the gym after a long day of work. It’s why we opt for Taco Bell instead of taking the time to cook a healthy meal.

Today, we’re going to give you a quick life hack that can help you start leveling up your life and actually get things done that need to get done!

What is Temptation Bundling?

This LEGO is interested in levelling up his life with temptation bundling.

I bet you’ve said the following: “Before I can watch TV, I need to exercise.” And yet, TV ends up winning over exercise almost all the time, especially if it’s after a long miserable day at work.

So, instead of “if I do this, then I get this” What if we combined the two into one epic activity?

That idea is called “temptation bundling,” a term coined by Wharton Professor Katy Milkman: ultimately, you combine something that needs to be done with something you want to do.

She describes the idea in a paper entitled: “Holding The Hunger Games Hostage at the Gym: An Evaluation of Temptation Bundling.” [1] The goal is to get us to do things we need to do by combining them with things we want to do, removing the “either/or” temptation and getting us to ACTUALLY do stuff:

Participants were randomly assigned to a full treatment condition with gym-only access to tempting audio novels, an intermediate treatment involving encouragement to restrict audiobook enjoyment to the gym, or a control condition.

Initially, full and intermediate treatment participants visited the gym 51% and 29% more frequently.

Long story short: the people in the study who were told they could listen to addictive audio books only while working out visited the gym 51% more frequently than those who were just told they should exercise more.

Here’s some Nerd Fitness examples:

In love with the show Arrow? I am, and I want Stephen Amell to be my best friend.  Don’t say, “I can only watch Arrow after exercising.” Change your phrasing, and try this instead: “I can only watch Arrow WHILE exercising.” Bring your iPad or Laptop to the gym, and only watch particular shows while you are on a treadmill, walking, or using the elliptical.

Addicted to Clash of Clans on your phone? Only allow yourself to work on your clan while at the gym, in between sets of deadlifts. Same goes for looking at TikTok or Instagram: only while resting in between squats!

Maybe you can only listen to Serial or The Rewatchables while walking, doing a particular work task, or even completing a chore at home like cleaning or laundry. An hour episode while walking could result in you racking up 3+ miles on your walk to Mordor!

Afraid to try cooking a new healthy meal? You can ONLY listen to a podcast or music in your house while you are cooking. BLAST it at top volume while having fun making a mess trying to cook.

Now, although this study teaches us that bundling a healthy life-improvement activity with one you enjoy can help you make a change, the boost can oftentimes be temporary.

The study went on to say that the “allure” of the audiobook + gym combo wore off after a few months, thus furthering the suggestion that the best chance for long term success is to truly “enjoy the journey.”

Long story short: this can a great strategy to get started, and a great way to identify types of exercise or strategies that work for you, long term results might require leveled up strategies!

But that’s fine – we’re going to be using it to build long term habits.

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If you can implement it properly, temptation bundling can both increase your time spent doing a healthy activity while also helping you limit the unhealthy one.

Now, you might be saying, “Steve, doesn’t this make the fun activity less enjoyable and the exercise/health portion less efficient?” 

Possibly, but that’s not the point! Sure, I would love it if you went to the gym, completed a kickass workout, ate a healthy meal, and then got 8 hours of sleep.

However, this isn’t Imagination Land, and I know the best workout plan is the one you actually complete. This is infinitely better than the perfect workout plan that makes you say “meh, I’ll start tomorrow.”

So what do we do? We use temptation bundling to get us started, and then use drive to keep us going. When we build interest ih the activity itself, we shift our focus from “I’m enduring this workout” to “I can’t wait to see how much better I am this week.” The change can become permanent.

Your turn: what’s one activity that you love to do, and one that you know you should do more of? And how are you going to implement this strategy TODAY to your daily routine? Here are some other rapid fire examples:

  • Are you studying or getting some work done? Get your favorite snack or beverage only when you are doing it.
  • Try walking outside (or a cardio machine) – that’s now the only time you’re allowed to listen to your favorite podcast/audiobook.
  • Try pairing chores like ironing, doing laundry, or cleaning dishes while watching your favorite tv shows or a new movie you’ve been waiting for.

Your turn!

What’s one temptation bundle you are going to combine and start TODAY?

-Steve

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#healthyliving #holistic #nutrition How to Infuse Your Workout With Body Image Affirmations (And Why You Should)

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We think about body image affirmations a little differently here at Lindywell. I use them often while guiding our workouts. Members will hear me say: “Meet your body where it’s at,” or “Take a moment to thank your body for all it’s done for you today.” I say this to remind them that, not only are our bodies incredible, but that these workouts are about so much more than how our bodies look.

At Lindywell we believe in the power of a grace-over-guilt mindset. This can relate to letting go of perfectionism and allowing room for mistakes, but it can also relate to how we view our bodies – choosing self-compassion over judgment, guilt, and shame. 

We believe that strength and mobility are important, but so is the way we talk to ourselves and view ourselves. At Lindywell, appreciating your body on a much deeper level – a level that goes far beyond outward appearance.

I want you to slow down, regulate your nervous system, and find some joy and calm in your day too. I want you to see how showing up for yourself for even 10 minutes isn’t just about your fitness, but about releasing stress and anxiety too.

Research shows when you infuse these kinds of body image affirmations into your movement, you impact both your mental and physical wellness. So, let’s dive into the research and then talk about how to seamlessly incorporate this practice into your workout routine. 

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Why Combine Exercise with Body Image Affirmations

The prevalence of body image dissatisfaction has become a global health concern. You may have noticed this anecdotally, in your Instagram feed, for example—but it’s also being noticed and studied through global reports

The internalized pressure that stems from a mainstream society that favors smaller bodies can cause anxiety related to weight, shape, size, age, muscle tone, and other external features. Over time, these body image anxieties can escalate into eating disorders or compulsive exercising—but even if it doesn’t, we’re still left in a place of constant dissatisfaction with our bodies.

One way to combat this is to speak more love, grace, and self-compassion over our bodies as we mindfully move them. Rather than using exercise as a tool to control the areas we feel critical or insecure about, body image affirmations remind us to celebrate the joy of movement, while listening to what our bodies actually need in the moment. I know this might seem “woo-woo,” but there’s scientific evidence to back it up.     

If you believe you’re suffering from an eating disorder, we encourage you to seek support through organizations like ANAD or ProjectHEAL, where you’ll find educational resources and a 24/7 crisis helpline.

The Mental Health Connection

A recent study in the Behavioral Sciences Journal found that women who intentionally practiced self-compassion for three weeks reported an increase in overall body acceptance, confidence, and empowerment. This created an awareness of their capacity to reframe negative beliefs or behaviors around their appearance. The research also showed that this self-compassion results in less shame, depression, anxiety, body comparison, and critical inner dialogue. I know we can all use less of that.

According to another study, positive body image attitudes, practices, and beliefs will lead to appreciation for how the body functions, instead of just focusing on how it looks. It can also lead to higher self-esteem and more satisfaction in life. 

All of this is incredible to me—our brains have so much power! (Learn more about that in Principles of Neuroplasticity 101: How to Change Your Health Habits.)

The Physical Health Connection

Nurturing a positive body image can increase feelings of physical competence too. In other words, when you’re comfortable and secure in your body, you feel more confident in your own athletic or fitness abilities. This, in turn, reinforces the desire to be active, which correlates with improved muscular strength, endurance, and cardiorespiratory function. All of this impacts so much of your physical health!

Body image affirmations could even help to bolster exercise adherence, according to this recent report. That’s because this practice teaches you to notice when body ruminations or anxieties surface, so you can redirect those thoughts toward healthier exercise motivations that have nothing to do with appearance (ex. being active with your kids or fur babies). 

When movement is about more than how your body looks, you’re more deeply connected to your “why,” which is a much more powerful motivator than image.

How to Infuse Body Image Affirmations into Your Workout

I am suggesting bringing these powerful body image affirmations into your movement routine to help you tap into the innate mind-body connection we all have. In doing so, you may find it’s easier to choose a pace that feels good for you or allow yourself to use more modifications. In other words, you’re more likely to honor what your own unique, miraculous body is capable of today—which is different from tomorrow or yesterday! 

Instead of pushing or forcing, which makes you feel shame or frustration, you can simply allow yourself to move in whatever way feels good. That is what leads to the long-term commitment to movement you’ve been seeking.  (It’s also not about having more motivation; check out my blog post on motivation vs. consistency to find out why!)

Create Your Body Image Affirmation

There are seemingly unlimited versions of different body image affirmations you can choose from or create. If you do a workout with us at Lindywell, you may even pick up on a few from me! The key is to focus on affirmations that feel true and accessible to you. Check out this blog post on self-love mantras from our Head of Breathwork and Somatic Programs to find out how to create the perfect affirmation (which is similar to a mantra) for yourself.

To help you get a jump-start, here are some affirmations that you can use as-is or customize to make it feel more like your own: 

  • I meet my body wherever it’s at in this present moment.
  • I tune into what my body is telling me, then respond to its needs.
  • I grant my body permission to claim as much space as it wants.
  • I trust my body to choose the right pace and rhythm.
  • I honor my body’s strength, resilience, abilities, and limitations.
  • I know that nothing about my body must change to be worthy.
  • I can accept my body at its current shape, size, and weight, even if I want to change it.
  • I offer my body unconditional respect, love, and compassion.
  • I feel rooted, safe, and competent within my body. 
  • I am grateful to my body for keeping me active and alive.

Weave Affirmations Into Your Workout

There is no one perfect way to use body image affirmations during your workout—it’s all about what feels good to you! I can, however, recommend a few simple steps if you’re looking for some guidance:

Step 1: Choose an affirmation that helps you connect to your focus or intention for that day or workout.

Step 2: Before starting your workout, sit or stand with your hands on your heart. Take three deep breaths in and out, and as you do, repeat the affirmation to yourself.

Step 3: Repeat this affirmation throughout the workout. As you start to feel frustrated or notice a negative thought pop into your head is a great time to come back to it.

Step 4: Finish the workout the same way you started. Take three deep breaths in and out with your hands on your heart, repeating the affirmation as you do.

Start your free trial of Lindywell and try it for yourself. Just choose your affirmation, pick from one of our 300+ workouts, follow these steps, and see how good you feel when you finish!

It’s Time for Body Image Affirmations

Body image affirmations can be a simple (yet powerful) way to connect with your body, and all it can do, during a workout. As with anything, this takes practice and time. Give yourself grace as you try on different affirmations. Some days, it might stick and feel great—others, it may be hard to hold onto it and believe it, and that’s normal. 

Through it all, remember: you’re surrounded in nearly every area of life by a narrative that tells you your body size matters. Those beliefs won’t go away overnight, but you can slowly work toward shifting them for yourself with each affirmation you choose.

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#healthyliving #holistic #nutrition Q&A with Robin as a Newly Certified Nutrition Therapy Practitioner

Q&A with Robin as a Newly Certified Nutrition Therapy Practitioner

What led you to pursue further education in nutrition and to acquire your certification as a Nutrition Therapy Practitioner?

It’s no secret that I’m passionate and deeply interested in the power of food and nutrition. For more than a decade I’ve been supporting clients and members on their quest to nourish their bodies well and understand the implications of food on our health and wellbeing. Up until this past year I’ve been largely self-taught (through hours and hours of reading, classes, courses, etc) and have partnered closely with nutrition professionals and registered dietitians in order to lead and guide in a way that is ethical and well-researched. I will still continue to do that, but I also wanted to go through the entire certification process myself to bolster my knowledge, increase my understanding and allow myself and our team at Lindywell to support our community in more significant ways as it relates to nutrition. 

Why now?

The past 10 years have been so full – full of growing a business and growing a family, while cultivating our very special Lindywell community. Adding to my plate by going back to school was just not in the cards. Once I completed my manuscript for Well to the Core, it felt like the right time given that the massive project of writing a book was nearing completion. However, in hindsight. Adding “going back to school” to my plate this last year has been extremely challenging. I’m grateful that the Nutrition Therapy Association is designed to work for working professionals, but it was still a lot of work! From weekly reading, to weekly homework, to weekly classes and midterms and finals – it was a lot to juggle while also being a mom and working full-time. But I am SO glad I did and so grateful to have made it through!

In a world full of nutrition programs and certifications, why did you choose Nutrition Therapy Association?

My dear friend Madeline Given recommended them to me because she knows me well, she knows my approach to nutrition and she thought we would have good alignment. She was right! I did a lot of research on programs and certifications and found that my approach to food and nutrition fell very in line with the Nutrition Therapy Association. 

A few of the key elements that come to mind are that many of modern society’s health problems result from dysfunction and imbalances in the body’s physiological foundations, which include: 

  • A nutrient dense diet
  • Sleep
  • Stress
  • Blood sugar regulation 
  • Digestion. 

In my years of studying nutrition on my own accord, my own personal experience and my work with clients and members of Lindywell, these are the foundations I believe in as well. (If you’ve read Well to the Core, this is no surprise!) 

The NTA also believes in the fact that we are all bio-individual (meaning one approach to food doesn’t always fit all) and that the body must be treated as a whole. I also greatly appreciated the depth of education they provide within the curriculum, the acknowledgment that access to quality food is not equal and the celebration of food as an important part of emotional, cultural and social health. 

I love this quote from their website: 

“Our practitioners work to help each client find the right types of whole foods that will restore balance and enhance their health. They teach the importance of following a thoughtfully prepared, nutrient-dense diet, rich in whole foods that are delicious, nourish our bodies, and restore good health. We also honor the body’s innate intelligence and its incredible capacity to restore, regenerate, and correct itself – when given support through nutritional therapy, lifestyle modifications, and patience.”

How did you fit this into your busy schedule?

A lot of creativity and hard work! I tried my best to not do school work at night, because I know how much that impacts my sleep and circadian rhythms (I talk about this more in chapter _ of Well to the Core). So I time-blocked my schedule to allow time for nutrition homework either during the week or on the weekend. I did lots of nutrition work from the airport or on planes and I was very thankful that classes were recorded so that in the even that I couldn’t show up live (which was often) I could watch the replay on my own time. I’m very thankful for the Lindywell team that supports me so much and for my husband, Matt, who is a true partner in caring for the kids and the home.

How do you see this impacting what you do at Lindywell?

I am so excited because I am now able to lean deeper into nutrition, provide more specific guidance and I have SO much information that I want to share! I’m eager to hear what our community hopes for in terms of nutrition support and to continue listening to our community and providing the most trustworthy, reliable and realistic information I can to help each of us feel our best and live our lives to the fullest. As someone who spent years feeling paralyzed and frustrated by food (ie: Is this “healthy”? Should I eat this? Is this a good food/bad food to eat?) that I’m excited to bring more information and support to our community to make it easier to nourish our bodies well, support our health, achieve our fitness goals (like more muscle and healthier bones!), and to do so while celebrating and enjoying the gift that food is in our lives. 

I want to improve my diet, but get so overwhelmed by all the conflicting information about where to focus first. What should I start with?

Join me LIVE as I dive deeper into these myths on a FREE Nutrition Class on January 30 at 4pm PT/ 7pm ET. 

PS: If you’re wanting to study nutrition for your own personal purposes or for your career, I do highly recommend the Nutrition Therapy Association. I paid in full and this post is not sponsored. However, if you enroll you can use my code at checkout (code: ROBIN) to receive a bonus resource. And you can also enter the code FEB24NTP500 to receive $500 off the February enrollment!

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#healthyliving #holistic #nutrition Functional Core Workout: 5 Pilates Exercises for a Stronger Body

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Despite what we have been taught to believe, a great functional core workout has nothing to do with aesthetics. A strong and stable core is about so much more than visibly toned abs. As the body’s main center of gravity, this muscle group allows you to stand, reach, twist, bend, lean, squat, and perform other basic moves without losing your balance. You cannot live your life without your core—and life is much easier and more enjoyable when it’s strong! 

Even more importantly, your core is important in all stages of life, especially for women. If you want to age joyfully—and with strength—you can’t overlook this aspect of strength-building. Luckily, this is a critical aspect of what we do at Lindywell. We say that your core is at the heart of ours because we know how important the core is to living a happy and functional life.

Before you do another random “ab workout” from YouTube, take a few minutes to learn about your core and how to keep it (truly) strong, so you can enhance mobility and function in everyday life. Don’t miss our functional core workout at the end. 

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The Health Benefits of Core Strength and Stability

The core muscles include your front abdominals, obliques, diaphragm, pelvic floor, and lumbar spine. Increased strength and stability in these muscles will lead to a wide range of physical benefits, including:

  • Postural alignment
  • Muscular endurance
  • Flexible range-of-motion
  • Lower risk of injury
  • Balance control

Core stabilization exercises, like the ones you’ll find in the work below, can also help reduce non-specific lower back pain, which could improve mobility. Pilates was key for managing and living with my scoliosis while still enjoying life and movement. I shared about in my blog post, Pilates for Scoliosis: How to Find Relief with Movement. Please check this out if you’re struggling with scoliosis too.

The problem is, most people associate a core workout with a series of boring, repetitive crunches. Crunches only activate the abdominals and obliques with one back-and-forth spinal motion. This creates pressure on the lower back and hip flexors, which can lead to chronic pain or injuries over time. It also ignores all other areas of your core, which are just as important. The most beneficial core exercises recruit all the deep core muscles—not just your abs—for a more holistic, functional movement. 

Learn more about the connection between your abs and your pelvic floor in my podcast episode, Abs, Core, and Pelvic Floor: What You Need to Know to See Progress.

Core Strength and Pilates

The gentle, whole-body approach of Pilates is the perfect way to build core strength, flexibility, and balance—without adding pressure or discomfort to your spine. 

I don’t just believe this as the founder of Lindywell; science tells us this too. The European Journal of Investigation in Health, Psychology, and Education found that Pilates is a more efficient way to promote core balance, maintain functional autonomy, and lower the risk of age-related falls than traditional resistance training. 

No matter what season or phase of life you’re in, Pilates is a simple and effective way to strengthen this key area of your body.

5  Functional Pilates Exercises for Optimal Core Strength

If you’re ready to build core strength (for real—not just do a bunch of crunches!), you’ve come to the right place. I have a free workout for you below to get started with. If you want more workouts like this, start your free trial of our Pilates app, Lindywell. You’ll get instant access to 300+ workouts, guided breathwork sessions and more.    

1. Pelvic Floor Lift

As you do this, imagine there’s a corset around your waist, causing the pelvic floor muscles to draw in and lift. Keep that corset image in mind as you continue to perform this subtle movement.

2. Single Leg Toe Taps   

As your leg hinges and your toes tap down, the pelvic floor should remain stable. Don’t let your back arch up and keep your collarbone open. If you can’t stop the arching, make your movement a little smaller.

3. Single Leg Stretch

Make sure your core stays activated while drawing the belly button in and lifting your legs into the tabletop position. Aim to keep your shoulder blades up off the mat during the entire workout; you can also lay flat between movements if that’s easier for you too.

4. Chest Lift

As you lengthen the head, neck, and chest, focus on keeping your waits in the corset and your pelvis strong and stable. As you lift, think of lifting the pelvic floor as well to stay connected to your core.

5. Double Leg Toe Taps

Lie on your back with a neutral spine and flat pelvis. Maintain the corset feeling around your waist as you lift both legs into a tabletop position. Open the collarbone, then draw the belly button in. If your back arches during this exercise, make the movement smaller again, as you did during the single-leg toe tap.

Harness the Power of Pilates to Build a Strong and Stable Core 

Having visible abs doesn’t mean someone has a strong core—this goes much deeper than that (literally). The core is one of the most important areas of the body, making it easier and more comfortable for you to go about daily life. Whether you’re bending down to pick a flower or reaching up high on one foot to get something at the top of a cabinet, your core is always working for you. That’s why this functional core workout, and those similar to it in the Lindywell app, cannot be overlooked if you want to live a long, healthy life!

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